

Which need is satistied is important here. Sexual gratification is not the same as an apparent need to interact with someone who affirms everything you tell it to, basically acting as a personality mirror. And then falling in love with something that echoes your every thought does have a semblance of narcissism involved.
Taking the dildo metaphor: having a dildo isn’t narcissistic. Being a dude and having a dildo molded after your own dick and exclusively using that as it’s “the best thing ever”, does seem a bit narcissistic, no?
For me it’s grounds to deny a merge request. Can’t explain your code? Then it’s evidently not clear enough. Come back when it is.