If the son has issue i’d say the good parenting would be to try to fix the son, not pass the burden to a random girl . Let’s say OP is an incel constantly rambling about how feminism has ruined girl which prevent him from dating, i’d try to work on deconnecting him from internet and have social relation rather than find a girl that suit him.
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I’d tell my dad to f off and mind his own business only to make it clear that he has no right to infere in my love life, especially to force thing on me.
Mouette@jlai.luto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•RomM v4.0.0 (self-hosted ROM manager/player) has been releasedEnglish2·2 months agoThe UI is the main point of RomM project, the actual emulation is done by another tool called EmulatorJS
Used pixel actually limit a lot the choice. I’ve not dived into de-googled phone yet but from what I understood postmarketOS seems like the used/old phone OS
Ah yes my collection is less than few GB that play I guess
My PI with podman jellyfin and flatnotes is sitting at 600 MB ram
Mouette@jlai.luto Uplifting News@lemmy.world•Finland to criminalise Holocaust denialEnglish11·4 months agoStating you hate nazi is a thing. Creating a political party and actively stating you want to kill whoever you include in your nazi definition are two differents things.
This is why it is ultimately at the judge to determine if it fall under hate speech and promoting violence or is just a random anarchkiddo on the web saying ‘I wAnT tO kIlL nAZi’ from his mama home
Mouette@jlai.luto Uplifting News@lemmy.world•Finland to criminalise Holocaust denialEnglish95·4 months agoIf you’re not able to critizice Israël without deniying Holocaust happened I don’t really care you are silenced. There’s plenty of ppl capable of doing the first without the latter and these are the people I want to hear not some confusionist bullshit
Mouette@jlai.luto Uplifting News@lemmy.world•Finland to criminalise Holocaust denialEnglish424·4 months agoFree speech != Hate speech. Holocaust denial is hate speech. End of the story.
I’m using areweanticheatyet.com more than ProtonDB to check if games are working as most issues I’ve encountered are due to anticheat not working on Linux. Apart from these most games just works without much tinkering.
Mouette@jlai.luto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Am I going crazy, or has people's spelling gotten awful lately?32·5 months agoHonestly I’m not doing much effort to be correct when writing English. As long as people get more or less my point I do not really care
Mouette@jlai.luto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•How do I host Jellyfin in the most secure manner possible?English1·5 months agoHow i do it:
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Wireguard for VPN endpoint on the pi and device that I have root on, secure, fast to setup and doesn’t add a lot of overhead
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For access outside of VPN:
You might have to pay for a domain name if you dont have a static IP, which is relatively cheap.
You can manually allow trusted IP to access the service in your firewall which nullify surface of attack if done perfectly but is really an hassle to setup and maintain. I’m looking to setup Keycloack for a strong pre-auth that I can share between services and that is also lightweight (Authentik is not lightweight, Authelia seems to be i’d like to try it aswell) This coupled with firewall rules and/or fail2ban like service should be more than enough for a private server I think.
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Mouette@jlai.luOPto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Network monitoring via Glance DashboardEnglish3·6 months agoIt is using Glance extension module (you can send custom HTML by setting up a local web api like Flask) The graph are HTML SVG tags which are basic drawing you just have to input the x,y coordinates of your graph (I copied Glance market chart) For networking data collection and monitoring I’ve setup my own rules and scripts but it is doable with others network monitoring tools if they let you access data easily
Mouette@jlai.luOPto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Network monitoring via Glance DashboardEnglish2·6 months agoYes the full recipe is:
- 1 Flask API for sending custom HTML to Glance
- 1 systemd unit + python script for the right graph (last 60 minutes, resetting counter and collecting data via nftables python module)
- 1 systemd unit + python script for the left graph (last 24h, aggregate data from the last hour collevted by the first script And that’s it, the systemd units are used to schedule python scripts and all the data are stored in flat csv file (forgot one bash script +systemd unit to to flush docker rules at boot and apply custom ones)
Mouette@jlai.luOPto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Network monitoring via Glance DashboardEnglish2·6 months agoGlance is cool I love the style and it is well implemented so you can easily add custom HTML and CSS which is what I did to do this custom monitoring. Data are gathered from iptables counters that periodically reset, the hardest and most interesting part was to understand networking and to track packet through applications based on if they were port binded or reverse proxyed (I use Caddy for web facing app I want access to without a VPN). I’ll definitively check more advanced solution, I just needed to do it manually first to actually understand what I’m doing (which took me like 2 weeks until I finally found this gem on ArchLinux wiki https://www.frozentux.net/iptables-tutorial/iptables-tutorial.html)
Are you really rage answering to comments on a 2 month post on which you litteraly posted that not tolerating opposing opinion is being fragile 🤣🤣🤣
Mouette@jlai.luto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Do I really need a firewall for my server?English3·6 months agoI just went done this road and i’d say it is worth it even only for the learning part. I’ve set counter per application in nftable, and via a python script send them in SVG graph format to Glance dashboard. The result is I can monitor my whole network per application and the best part it all add up very well so I know there is no ‘unknown’ outgoing or ingoing traffic on my machine.
Yes it runs fine I played it a lot on my system. It was unplayble when I tested on Hyprland due to interaction click being unusable but worked fine on sway
Mouette@jlai.luto Linux@lemmy.ml•Can we please, PLEASE for gods sake just all agree that arch is not and will never be a good beginner distro no matter how many times you fork it?121·7 months agoIt is not as overwhelming as you make it sounds, you don’t need to read the whole changelog every time you update just check Arch news page and they state any manual action an update might need. I run arch since like 1 y and I almost never had to do such manual actions. You can see on archlinux.org news it’s not that bad although I can totally see why it is not suitable for most people
Yeah Sunshine + Moonlight works great as long as you have a stable connection. It’s a bit of setup especially to enable WOL so it’s not on all the time but once you get it going it work very well. I’ve bought a 400 € laptop and 4 controller and I’m bringing it on vacation to play with family it’s a lot of fun, also got gifted a steam deck and streaming Elden Ring works also well !