Well if the that is case, there is no reason to compromise to have a relationship with your mom. Being with your dad is the way better option for you (since he loves you and you love him) and maybe it is the best option for everybody involved.

Still I hope you understand that at some level what your dad did was morally wrong. Irrespective how crappy things were, the correct order would have been to seek divorce before hooking up/dating somebody else. Learn from the mistake he made.

OP you have given us way little information. How was your parents marriage before this blow up? Were you not close with your mother before? You mention you are close with your father but nothing about mother. Also were you upset or angry by the actions of your father? From the information you have shared (that you are staying with your dad and his mistress), it seems that you are not bothered by what is happening.

Now based on the limited information you have given, your father is clearly the guilty party here. He did something that is morally wrong. Hopefully you understand that. Your mom is very hurt and must feeling betrayed (slightly even by you because you chose to stay with your dad and his mistress). In that emotional state, she is making a unreasonable request to you (to go no contact with your dad). If you want a good relationship with mom, you will have sit down with her and reach an understanding and compromise with her. Maybe you can go to therapy with her like some other commenters suggested. One thing I am sure about is that if you side with father on everything, you will end up estranged from your mom.

Can’t his boyfriend drive the car

Immich is great

I thought immich is just getting some funding from FUTO only to find out now that the project has joined FUTO. But immich is still AGPL so that is good.

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everyone still puts all the blame on Verstappen.

I don’t think it is an issue of blaming Max. Just that max shouldn’t be so bitchy for having his own move pulled on him. Piastri did nothing wrong today. The only thing max did wrong was not give the place back.

I just watched the race highlights (was traveling so couldn’tcatch the race). Nothing controversial about the penalty that max got. He was clearly behind piastri while entering the corner and hence piastri was not obliged to give him any space. The way people were talking about it, I thought they piastri tried to outbrake max from behind and pushed him out. Max has himself done this many times (gaining a slight but clear lead into T1 and pushing the car on the outside off the track when the guy does not yield), T1 Imola 2021 being a prime example.

Piastri keeps impressing again and again. Great start, consistent pace throughout and pulled off that daring pass on Hamilton because the situation demanded it. Verstappen too was impressive, bad start and grumpy mood notwithstanding. How he is inserting himself into what should be 2-horse title battle is impressive. Leclerc was also solid, absolutely maximizing that car.

No they is not are not a bot. Just a guy trying to drive up engagement in the community but failing because people (include me) don’t like the way they are spamming articles from their RSS feed.

@GreenEngineering3475@lemmy.world please stop this. The posts which see engagement are mostly the ones which are well thought out and interesting. Please only share articles which you found interesting

When lando was quicker last year, we never made excuses like the car better suited lando or similar shit. The popular consensus was that piastri’s inexperience was resulting in worse tyre wear and pace. Piastri has worked on these issues and is now just as quick while being consistent. Why is it that people are making excuses like the car suits piastri better instead of just admitting that piastri has made a big jump.

That hat is certainly something.

That was a great race. So many great performances as well - piastri with the dominant win, russell dragging the fast but buggy merc to 2nd, gasly being ahead of several of the big guns for most of the race, Yuki making it into the points in just his 2nd red bull weekend and Haas in general nailing the strategies with their drivers also executing.

The wheel to wheel racing was also insane. These modern cars are good for racing but now need wider circuits. The old circuits are unfortunately too narrow for these behemoths.

Piastri is the real deal

Yuki justifying his ‘promotion’, being so close to Verstappen

Verstappen under investigation. Could become interesting.

For Andrea’s sake, I hope this is true. Or else he will have a lot of egg on his face trying to explain how his team fumbled a WDC with the best car and two top drivers

She was walking after the crash so I am hopeful that they are keeping her just for observation.

Yeah I also watch the F1TV feed and I see 2 reasons why McLaren didn’t go for that.

1. RB in 2013 had internal demarcation between the drivers. Vettel was number 1 and Webber number 2.
2. McLaren want to treat the drivers ‘equally’. They don’t have the stones like Red Bull/Mercedes do to execute the best strategy and then handle any driver fallout later. Even when said strategy is justified because it is the best outcome for the team.

Sparks from the plank and floor hitting dry grass. It rained today so the grass is damp and hence no fires today

This was one of the best victories for Max

McLaren in a perfect catch 22