Jesus Fucking Christ…I hope this is satire. Bloke reaches out for some ideas on how to improve a situation he clearly sees is happening and wants to prevent and then BAM you drop this massive turd in his punchbowl of life.
Also, it’s ‘facade’.
I am neither: I am the table.
I saw a butt piercing; an eyelid stud; a weighted frenulum chain (think bike lock); a full back brand ; and vulva “Sarlac Pit” tattoo all in the 90s. Everyone had something. I was an outlier in my career at the time in not having any tattoos or piercings or body mods. No judgement on those who did, just wasn’t for me.
This mea culpa is not quite as filling as it should be. Need some deep face down arse up genuflexion.
Just kidding.
The fact you owned the mistake is enough.
Both books are excellent