I’m recently divorced. My ex wife met a couple who were swingers and had an open marriage. So of course she wanted to do this. I felt like I had to say yes because I cheated on her in the past which I felt horrible about and was a huge mistake. So we had an open marriage for years and dated all sorts of people. It destroyed our marriage and amplified our contempt for each other. It really didn’t help that she was a narcissist. Every woman I met through this process was 100% shopping for a new husband. One in particular I’ve seen pop up on my LinkedIn suggested connections. She has a new last name. I filed for divorce last year because I couldn’t live with the fallout from our choices. It’s your life but from my perspective, this is a huge mistake if you love your wife. Best of luck.

Don’t assume that we’re all initiated. What gif?

Only downside to it. Ran it in a windows VM in Unraid for about 5 years.

I think BlueIris full retail copy is something like $50. You pay yearly for upgrades which is around $25. It’s gone through many major upgrades. They do have a trial you can grab to give it a shot.

I know you said Open Source but the ones I tried were not fabulous. I used BlueIris for about a decade. I recently depreciated that for a Ubiquity NVR and cameras. BlueIris works well if you have an Intel CPU with iGPU to do the decoding. BlueIris can record to network attached storage and if you follow online guidelines you can ensure CPU utilization isn’t through the roof.

Or just dumb luck, which was my case.

And can contain some fun ascii art.